How to Have a Threesome—Tips for Swinger Couples

Are you a swinger couple wondering how to have a threesome with your partner? I have some tips for you.

Reach an agreement in regards to boundaries. The biggest mistake made by swinger couples and lovers are having a threesome without pre-discussion. I have made that mistake and paid my price for it. All three parties should be completely honest with each other in terms of sexually topic and relationship. When boundaries are set, everyone will feel more secure and fun. Be clear with “yes” and “no”. For example, if you are in a threesome and if your partner is not okay with you being alone with the third person, you should respect that. There are more examples for this:
I don’t feel comfortable with my anus being touched or penetrated, but okay with vagina.
I would like to have a non-penetration threesome and I willing to give or be given orally.
I don’t want you two to kiss, unless I said it is okay to do so.

If any one of us feel uncomfortable with certain things, it is allowed to bring it up and we will make adjustment together. Everyone is allowed to stop at any process and of course being respected for it.

When you are looking for the third, try to think out of the box. Many swinger couples and lovers asked me where they can find a threesome partner. There are many ways to find the third. Where you should begin with? Actually, you don’t have to look for it. Sometimes, it will come to you. All you need to do is talk about this topic occasionally. As the old saying goes, birds of a feather flock together. As long as people know you are interested in threesome hookup, your kind of people will come to you in a matter of time.

If you think you have found the third person, I think you should have a conversation beforehand. Maybe one of you met the third in a social gathering or a party. When you discuss threesome, three of you should be involved at the same time. That is to say, you should sit together and have a nice talk about the threesome, in order to make sure all parties are involved and on one being left out. Also make sure absolute transparency among you.

Where to find the third. You can go to tinder for threesome apps, such as 3rder and any other threesome apps. If you search threesome, you can see hundreds of such apps below. You can also find your third in parties. When everyone is getting high, it is easier to find a swingers single. Bars and clubs are also perfect place to find a threesome hookup. If it is possible, your friends can introduce for you. If there is sexual party, go ahead and join. You can definitely find a threesome and even foursome or group sex!