Everything starts from the day I moved to New York. At that point, I had no idea what an enormous effect it would have on me.
I had no friends at first: new school, new people, new job and a totally new world for me. They say that everything could happen in this city but for me, it is more like a simmer chance to seek true love since everyone around me is so picky and pretentious.
Even though I have been staying in my limited social circle, the desire of wanting to find a soulmate who really understands me has never fade away. I have tried online ts dating for a few month which eventually end up being a failed relationship. The turning point of my life starts from a randomly popped out transgender dating app. I met this women named Cathy on transgender app and we started talking. Things went extremely well. And the back and forth exchange of our messages was our daily dose of our happiness. Even though at that time dating a transgender person was till considered as a taboo by a lot of narrow minded people, I felt the urge of meeting her.“would you like to meet for a cup of coffee?”
That’s where our story started.
That’s when we met, a sunny afternoon in a local coffee shop. I was deeply attracted by her beautiful feminine features. And as a transgender women, I love the fact that she’s so confident about herself that she is not hiding anything from me. Aside from all that, she was also very clear about her situation and very straightforward towards what she wants.
A lot of my friends asked me if I was nervous at first when we decided to date her, well honestly, yes, I was. But the affection I have for er transcend largely the fear of what might happen in the future. I guess it is true that love always wins.
In order to get to know her more, I connected with the local transgender group which consists of a tremendous amount of shemale, ladyboy, tomboya s well as crossdressing men. I learned about the sorrows as well as determination in their life, which gave me a much more comprehensive image of their lives.
Also, more importantly, I learned to adapt to people’s criticism and negativity, even though it is out of pure hatred or ignorance. Thus I became a much stronger and determined person. And it is all because I have met my t girls, my soulmate, my love of life.
For many of you out there looking for transgender men or transgender women, don;t be afraid. All you need to do is keep going. There might be hurdles and difficulties getting in the way, but keep in mind that the love for your special half will always overrides the criticism from those who don’t matter.