What was the first thing you did after you decide to have a threesome with your partner? Communication? Find the third? NO! The first thing you need to do is deciding which type of threesome you want? There are FFM threesome and MMF threesome for swinger couples. Let’s just assume you are a regular straight couple which is consisted of one male and one female. There are two types of threesome. It can be easily forgotten, especially for males, that MMF threesome is also in the option. For many straight males, when it comes to threesome, they would just assume that they are going to have two naked chicks go down on him. However, for females, MMF threesome is just as attempting for them as FFM threesome for males. Therefore, a biased circumstance might appear in such situation. The husband might tacitly take it for granted that they are about to find another girl to join them, while the wife might think she wants to invite another man. That is why you should first decide which type of threesome you want, by negotiating.
I had such dilemma in my fet life. It caused a huge fight with my husband. Luckily, we are both very communicative and we went peace with that. When we firstly decided to have a threesome, we were both very excited about it and also had no idea how to make it happen. We know nothing about threesome. All I knew was having two men pleasing me on my side was something I dreamed of. However, for my husband, he definitely went for FFM threesome. As much as I knew that FFM threesome was something more ordinary and common than MMF threesomes, but I took it for granted that he would at least discuss it with me before he started to find the third. So I waited.
The minute we agreed to the idea of having a threesome, my husband never had a doubt that I might feel different about FFM threesome. He just assumed that I would also like to be involving in a threesome with another female, since FFM 3som was really common and he wouldn’t consider being naked in front of another guy. Therefore, he just acted based on his own thinking and he also had this idea of surprising me one day with another girl he found.
One day, he showed up at the door after work, with another girl with her. She was quite stunning. I was absolutely confusing at first. I thought he was just taking his colleague to grad a dinner with us. I invited her in. But after a while, I sensed something weird. She gave me this strange look, which made me totally uncomfortable. I started to figure it out. I asked my husband what was going on. He told me that she was the one that was going to have a couple dating with us. I was shocked and had a really big fight with him. After that, the girl seemed to understand the situation as well. When we came back, she was gone.